not me?
i just finished an email from a friend.
in it, there was something which invoked some sort of thoughts in me and i was half way through my reply to her. then i stopped, paused and then deleted the reply. i had decided not to reply her because i knew that whatever i was going to say, would probably be right but more importantly it would sadden her.

she was not going to be any worse off if she did not know my reply, so i guess that was good enough. my thoughts were going to make things worse - even though true - so why do it?

once upon a time, i would have send off that reply faster than you could say microsoft exchange, but i guess this was once upon a time no more...